In the final sermon in the series "No, that's NOT in the Bible", David
Dyke's brings up the phrase "to thine own self be true" which, of course
is
from Shakespeare. It somewhat sums up the humanistic theology many have.
In
other words, concentrate on self. Well that's not Biblical when we should
concentrate on our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. David Dykes preaches on
this in the following sermon.
May God bless,
Carl
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To Thine Own Self Be True
by David O. Dykes
John 8:31-32
31 To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, "If you hold to my
teaching, you are really my disciples. 32 Then you will know the truth,
and
the truth will set you free."
This is the final message in the series, "No, that's NOT in the Bible."
Since I've started this series, I've encountered several other "sayings"
often mistakenly quoted as coming from the Bible. Here are some other
sayings that aren't in the Bible: Charity begins at home; This too shall
pass; Good things come to those who wait; All men are created equal
(Declaration of Independence); Ashes to Ashes, Dust to Dust; Whosoever
Will
May Come (Hymn by Phillip Bliss). Not long ago someone asked me if the
phrase "How sharper than a serpent's tooth it is to have a thankless
child"
is from the Bible. No, that's from Shakespeare's King Lear.
There are hundreds of sayings people think are in the Bible. Also in my
study I came across some funny sayings you'll never mistake as coming from
the Bible: Time wounds all heels; He who laughs last thinks slowest; The
shortest distance between two points is under construction; Love is grand;
divorce is fifty grand; A day without sun****ne is like, well, night.
If this series has taught us anything, it is that we must study the
scriptures and whenever someone flippantly says, "The Bible says..." We
need
to ask them to find chapter and verse before we accept it as coming from
the
Bible!
Today we're going to examine the saying, "To thine own self be true." No,
that's NOT in the Bible. It comes from William Shakespeare's Hamlet, in
which Polonius is giving some fatherly advice to his 18-year-old son,
Laertes, before he departs for Paris. He has just told Laertes, "Neither a
lender or borrower be." (another phrase people think comes from the Bible)
In the next lines he comes to the pinnacle of his fatherly wisdom as he
says, "This above all; to thine own self be true. And it must follow, as
the
night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man."
I've saved this saying for last because I believe this phrase has become
the
motto of modern America. It combines two concepts that cannot be ignored:
self and truth. Americans are involved in a continual love affair with
self.
Our mantra has become: Take care of #1. Know yourself, love yourself, and
be
true to your self. Self has become the basic standard for truth. Americans
bow down at the altar of Sovereign Self. How far this is from the words of
Jesus spoken in Mark 8:34 when He said, "If anyone would come after me, he
must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me." Today, we hear,
love
self; protect self; promote self-and Jesus said, "Deny your self." He
wasn't
talking about denying yourself some thing-like going without food, or
pleasure. He meant to deny self's desire to constantly climb onto the
throne
of your life. Let's examine the dangerous implications of taking "To thine
own self be true" literally.
I. TRENDS THAT THREATEN OUR CULTURE
In Wa****ngton Irving's classic tale Rip Van Winkle, Rip is a hen-pecked
husband who wanders off in the Catskill Mountains. There he finds some
strange little people with a strange drink. He drinks some of their brew
and
settles down to take a nap. When he wakes up he thinks someone has played
a
trick on him because his beard is long and his rifle is rusty-and his
trusted dog is nowhere to be found. He doesn't realize he's been asleep
for
20 years and 2 days. When he went to sleep it was 1766, and America was a
British colony and when he woke up it was a young nation. As he wanders
back
into town, he is surprised to find that King George's face on the tavern
sign has been replaced by one that says "General Wa****ngton." It's really
a
story about how some people sleep through major changes.
I am here to announce that while many of us have been asleep something has
happened over the past two decades: America has moved from the "modern"
age
into the "post-modern" age. Americans have embraced a new set of values.
Part of the reason you might have slept through it is because East Texas
is
a little oasis of biblical morality and solid family values. But while you
were sleeping, our nation changed. Welcome to the postmodern world.
The core value of post-modern thought can be summarized with this
statement:
Tolerance is more im****tant than truth! Like many words, "tolerance" has a
definition and it has a different meaning. Words can have original
definitions and different usages. For instance, the word "gay" originally
meant "happy and carefree." That's the definition, but the current usage
of
the word is totally different, so I seldom say, "I feel so gay today!"
The word "tolerance" has undergone the same change. Tolerance used to
mean,
"respecting the beliefs and practices of others without agreeing with
them."
The new use of the word tolerance means that I must not only allow but I
must accept the beliefs and practices of those with whom I disagree. This
new tolerance came to be in a postmodern world where objective truth no
longer exists. There are only subjective opinions and if someone's truth
differs from your truth you must accept it as being as valid as your
truth;
if you don't, you are intolerant.
George Barna has done extensive research into the moral and spiritual
beliefs of Americans and he found: (1) 72% of Americans believe: "There is
no such thing as absolute truth; two people could define truth in totally
conflicting ways, but both could still be correct." (2) 71% of Americans
believe: "There are no absolute standards that apply to everybody in all
situations." (3) 64% of Americans believe: "Christians, Jews, Buddhists,
Muslims and all others pray to the same God, even though they use
different
names for that God." (4) 64% of Americans believe: "All religions are
equally good."
In 1987 Allan Bloom wrote The Closing of the American Mind. He was a
college
professor, and he wasn't writing from a Christian perspective. His thesis
is
that Americans replaced objective truth with the European ideas of
nihilism
and despair. We have embraced moral relativism and disguised it as
tolerance. He writes: "Almost every student entering the university
believes, or says he believes, that truth is relative. They have been
taught
that the danger of 'absolutes' is not error but intolerance. Relativism is
necessary to openness-and openness has become the 'great insight' of our
times." (The Closing of the American Mind, p. 25)
"To thine own self be true" has become the "life verse" for millions of
young people who not only are ignorant of what the Bible says, but they
don't
think it's true anyway. These trends can be seen in three different areas:
(1) Civic individualism
For years, Americans were willing to sacrifice the rights of the one, for
the good of the many. But today the value of cor****ate accountability has
been replaced with the cry for "personal liberty!" The essence of
individualism is: What's true for you may not be true for me. Instead of
asking questions like, "is this right or wrong?" the new question has
become, "Is this right for ME or not?
A few years ago, the senior at West End High School in Salt Lake City were
rehearsing for their graduation exercise. The high school choir was going
to
sing two traditional songs. But one student in the choir objected because
the songs contained the words "God" and "Lord." So instead of opting not
to
participate, she and her parents sued the school. And of course, you know
what happened. The Federal Court of Appeals ruled that the songs couldn't
be
sung.
Chuck Colson calls this "the tyranny of the individual-in which one person
can obstruct the rights of the majority." Colsen goes on to write: "If the
student had been requesting the right not to participate, that is
something
we can all agree upon. She could be excused, opt out as Christians often
do
in ***-education cl*****. But she was demanding something more: that the
majority be prevented from singing songs she didn't agree with." (Josh
McDowell and Bob Hostetler, The New Tolerance, p. 61)
(2) Moral relativism
In this postmodern age, there are no longer any moral absolutes. The main
question is no longer "Is this wrong or right?" The pertinent question has
become, "I this wrong for ME or right for ME?" For instance, if you think
having an abortion is wrong, then it is wrong for you, but if I think it's
right for me, then it's okay. After all, "To thine own self, be true."
One youth pastor was speaking to teenagers about premarital ***. One of
the
girls spoke up and said, "If you feel it's okay, then there's nothing
wrong
with it. Didn't Jesus say that what matters most is what you feel in your
heart?" The youth pastor went on to say that Jesus agreed with what
Jeremiah
wrote about the human heart, "It is deceitful above all things,
desperately
wicked, who can know it?" (Jeremiah 17:9)
Moral relativism says something is right if it feels right for you. Once,
our nation was guided by good moral standards based on the Bible-today
anything goes. The bizarre is even paraded before our eyes on daytime talk
shows. When we see enough people on television who have kissed their best
friends' sisters' boyfriend's pet, we tend to become hardened. It's easy
to
say, "Well, I'd never do anything like that, but if they want to, that's
their own business." Harry Blarmes wrote: "Ours is an age in which
'conclusions' are arrived at by distributing questionnaires to a
cross-section of the population or by holding a microphone before the lips
of casually selected passers-by in the street...In the sphere of religious
and moral thinking we are rapidly heading for a state of intellectual
anarchy in which the difference between truth and falsehood will no longer
be recognized. Indeed, it would seem possible that the words true and
false
will eventually (and logically) be replaced by the words likable and
dislikable." (The Christian Mind: How Should a Christian Think, p. 107).
Young people, if a professor or a teacher tells you there are no moral
absolutes, but right for you is what you think and feel is right, walk up
and stomp on their big toe. When they are getting ready to go berserk hold
up your hand and say, "I thought that was the right thing to do, and it
sure
felt like the right thing to do!" Don't really do that. Instead, when they
insist there are no moral absolutes, ask them, "Are you absolutely certain
about that?"
(3) Spiritual pluralism
The theological platform of the postmodern mind is, "All spiritual beliefs
are equally true and equally valid." If anyone claims their belief is
superior or that someone else is teaching error, they are labeled as
intolerant. In this postmodern age, religion is like a cafeteria line. You
can choose the Christian way, the Jewish way, the Muslim way, the New Age
way, or you can choose your own way. Or, if you want, pick and choose, and
combine some of the major religions-it's okay because they are all equal.
After the 9/11 attack there was a service held in Yankee Stadium called "A
Prayer for America." That service was a postmodern model because it had
every imaginable religious persuasion present. The roster included leaders
of local Muslim, Hindu and Sikh temples, black and white protestant
pastors,
Armenian and Greek orthodox archbishops, and male and female Jewish
Rabbis.
The perfect postmodern poster girl was the master of ceremonies-Oprah
Winfrey. She slipped in her new age doctrine by saying, "When you lose a
loved one you gain an angel whose name you know. On Sept. 11, 6.000 angels
were added to the roster." Ahh, that's nice, but is it true? The
postmodern
mind says, "It's true for her, so it's true."
It can best be summarized by New Age guru ****rley MacLaine. She holds a
typical postmodern perspective. In her book, Out on a Limb she asks David,
her spiritual guide, if he believes in reincarnation. He replies, "It's
true
if you believe it and that goes for anything." As followers of Jesus
Christ,
we are commanded to share the good news with every person in the
world-that's
where we meet opposition. If we dare to insist we are right, then we
violate
the spirit of the postmodern age: tolerance.
A few years ago, Dear Abby wrote some remarks about discussing religious
differences. She received a letter from a reader who disagreed with her
approach. The letter said: Dear Abby: "Your answer to the woman who
complained that her relatives were always arguing with her about religion
was ridiculous. You advised her to simply declare the subject off-limits.
Are you suggesting that people talk about only trivial, meaningless
subjects
so as to avoid a potential controversy?...It is arrogant to tell people
there are subjects they may not mention in your presence. You could have
suggested she learn enough about her relatives' cult to show them the
errors
contained in its teaching." Now, I tend to agree with the author of that
letter. I think we should always be able to discuss our differences. But
Dear Abby didn't agree. Her reply was: "In my view, the height of
arrogance
is to attempt to show people the 'errors' in the religion of their
choice."
(Sept. 19, 1989)
The best definition of tolerance I've found was spoken way back during the
age of reason in the last century. President John F. Kennedy said,
"Tolerance implies no lack of commitment to one's own beliefs. Rather it
condemns the oppression or persecution of others." I don't think people
who
disagree with me should be oppressed or persecuted. But I do want to have
the chance to dialogue with them and to lovingly show them what I believe
to
be the truth. That leads to our next main point:
II. THE REQUIRED RESPONSE TO OUR CULTURE
I believe these trends are dangerous. G. K. Chesterton, the English author
who strongly influenced the life and writing of C.S. Lewis, once said,
"Tolerance is a virtue of a man without convictions." This statement
alludes
to one of the dire consequence of the new tolerance: the loss of
conviction.
So what are we going to do? The Psalmist asked the same question in Psalm
11:3: "When the FOUNDATIONS are being destroyed, what can the righteous
do?"
When our moral and spiritual foundations are being destroyed, what can we
do? Like Rip Van Winkle, the church has got to wake up. We can't do church
the way we did it way back in the 1990s! The problem is that some of you
want to do church the way we did it back in the 1950s! So the first thing,
I
challenge you to do to is Wake up! Wake up! The world is different than it
was when you went to sleep! Let me mention a couple of responses that are
required:
(1) We must speak the truth even when it's unpopular
We've got to start by answering the question: Is there any objective
truth?
Or it is enough to say, "To thine own self be true?" Dr. Frances Shaeffer
addressed that question: "If there is no absolute moral standard, then one
cannot say in a final sense that anything is right or wrong. By absolute
we
mean that which always applies [to all people], that which provides a
final
or ultimate standard. If there is no absolute beyond man's ideas, then
there
is no final appeal to judge between individuals and groups whose moral
judgments conflict. We are merely left with conflicting opinions."
The founders of our country believed there were some objective human
truths
that have always been true and will always be true. They wrote in our
Declaration of Independence: We hold these Truths to be self-evident, that
all Men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with
certain unalienable Rights..."
Jesus said, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the
Father except through me." (John 14:6) Jesus didn't say He was one of the
ways, or one of the truths, and part of a life. The definite article in
the
original language denotes a one-and-only kind of claim. Jesus didn't claim
to be one of the ways to come to God the Father; He clearly said there is
no
other way. Now, as Christians, we risk the danger of being labeled as
intolerant, narrow-minded and bigoted because we believe Jesus is the only
way to heaven.
Sometimes people try to dismiss Jesus by saying He was simply a good
teacher. C.S. Lewis wrote some strong words about the exclusivity of
Jesus:
If you had gone to Buddha and asked him, "Are you the son of Brahma?" he
would have said, "My son, you are still in the veil of illusion." If you
had
gone to Socrates and asked, "Are you the son of Zeus?" he would have
laughed
at you. If you had gone to Mohammed and asked, "Are you the son of Allah?"
he would first have rent his clothes and then cut your head off. If you
had
asked Con****ius, "Are you Heaven?" I think he would have probably replied,
"Remarks which are not in accordance with nature are in bad taste." The
idea
of a great moral teacher saying what Christ said is out of the question.
In
my opinion, the only person who can say that sort of thing is either God
or
a complete lunatic suffering from that form of delusion which undermines
the
whole mind of man. ("What Are We to Make of Jesus Christ?" God in the
Dock:
Essays on Theology and Ethics (Grand Rapids, MI: Eerdmans, 1970). pp.
157-158.)
Tolerance says, "Jesus is only one of the ways to God. It's your way, and
it's
true for you, but it may not be true for me." Dorothy Sayers wrote: "In
the
world it is called Tolerance, but in hell it is called Despair, the sin
that
believes in nothing, cares for nothing, seeks to know nothing, interferes
with nothing, enjoys nothing, hates nothing, finds purpose in nothing,
lives
for nothing, and remains alive because there is nothing for which it will
die."
In a postmodern age, we must stand up for Jesus while we still have a
place
to stand. We must speak the truth. But as Paul wrote in Ephesians 4:15,
"We
must speak the truth in love."
(2) Choose to obey God rather than man
In the Book of Acts, Peter and John were arrested and the Supreme Court of
Israel, the Sanhedrin, officially ordered them not to speak publicly about
Jesus anymore. It was fine if they wanted to believe it for themselves,
but
they were forbidden from trying to persuade anyone else to believe. Peter
and John decided to obey God and to suffer the consequences. We read in
Acts
4:19, "Judge for yourselves whether it is right in God's sight to obey you
rather than God. For we cannot help speaking about what we have seen and
heard."
That's exactly where we find ourselves today. The postmodern world tells
us,
"Keep your beliefs to yourself. It's fine if you want to believe that, but
don't you tell me I'm wrong." The time may soon come when there is a law
passed that will prevent me from saying publicly that homo***ual behavior
is
wrong. There is already a law to that effect in Canada. There are some who
would say that such a statement constitutes a hate crime. We are fast
approaching a time when the only "bad people" are those who try to impose
their moral standards on others.
For instance, Ron Brown is an Assistant Football Coach at the University
of
Nebraska. He has impeccable academic and athletic credentials. He was one
of
the leading candidates for the head coaching job at Stanford University.
But
he was rejected because as an evangelical Christian he shared that in his
candid opinion, homo***ual behavior was wrong. Brown, who is
African-American, never identified the school, but it is common knowledge
that he was being interviewed by Stanford. "If they had a problem with my
skin color they never would have come out and said it," Brown says. "They
had a problem with my faith, and they had no problem saying that." The
school later issued an explanation that said that his beliefs "had to be
considered in the final evaluation."
We're in the postmodern world and there's no going back. But if you think
this is an "ain't it awful" message, think again. I am tremendously
excited
about the op****tunity we have to share the gospel to a postmodern world.
People are going to find that they have a need for truth, and we can
humbly
say, "We know the truth-His name is Jesus." For the postmodernists, they
are
more interested in relation****ps than beliefs. And that's what we've got
to
offer: A relation****p with God and a relation****p with people who will
love
them. The future is bright for the church that wakes up and realizes
things
have changed. Our message will never change, but the way we package the
message has got to change.
CONCLUSION
In "Fiddler on the Roof," Tevye is listening as some villagers debate a
business transaction. The issue at stake is whether an animal is a horse
or
a mule. One villager asks Tevye to sup****t his side of the argument, so
Tevye says, "You're right!" At which, the other villager emphatically
stresses his opposing argument to Tevye. Tevye shrugs his shoulders and
says, "You're right." A third villager confronts Tevye and says, "But
Tevye,
they both cannot be right." Tevye thought for another moment and said,
"You're
right, also!" That's the spirit of this age. I'm right, you're right,
we're
all right, alright?
Islam claims Jesus was simply a great prophet who never was crucified or
resurrected. And the Bible claims Jesus died on the cross for our sins and
was buried and on the third day rose again. They both cannot be right.
Only
one is truth, and there is no way to say both Islam and Christianity are
truth. If Islam is true, then Christianity is a false religion and we
should
turn this building into a mosque. If Christianity is truth; Islam is a
false
religion, and we should be lovingly sharing the good news will the one
billion Muslims on this planet.
It's a new world. "To thine own self be true?" Is that truth? What you
your
"self" thinks? That's a pretty scary standard of truth! Should we say, "To
thine own God be true?" No, we should hear the words of Jesus when He
said,
"If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will
know
the truth, and the truth shall set you free!" (John 8:31-32)
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