Love sees the good Spirit at work within each person and delights in it.
Even if we have just been annoyed with someone, we will feel new joy in
them as soon as love rules in us again. We will overcome our personal
disagreements and joyfully acknowledge the working of the good Spirit in
each other.
Augustine goes even further. He says we ought not to see each other as we
are now, but that we should see others as they are meant to be, as they
will be when God’s Spirit fills them completely...
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